This post was published last winter. Now that it is getting to be back to school season, it seems that now is a good time to re-publish it. I added some additional thoughts at the end.
Will The Crucifix Be There In Four Years?
How do you keep your faith in college? It can be done.
The following advice was written by Peter Bullen, a Stanford grad, who has long been a member of the St. Francis of Assisi.
1. Make a conscious decision to love every single person you meet. Love is an action rather than a feeling, so it’s the key to living your faith actively.
2. Love yourself because God loves you and you are His child. College is hard, and you will fail sometimes, so you may have a hard time loving yourself, but if you don’t love yourself, it’s harder to love others and love God.
3. Get involved in a Christian fellowship on campus. Christian friends can support each other in their faith and encourage each other towards Christ. We’re all members of the Body of Christ, so we’re meant to work together.
4. Pray and share your faith with your friends.
5. Take time to pray when you have down time, such as when you’re walking to class. Praying often helps you keep God at the center of your life.
6. Put your faith into your regular schedule. For example, go to daily mass on a certain day of every week or read the Bible at a certain time.
7. Do not be afraid to ask questions about your faith. Questions can help you grow if you take the effort to find the answers.
8. At times when you doubt your faith, be active instead of passive. Pray for stronger faith, talk to someone who has a strong faith, and learn more about your faith.
9. Learn more about the mass and the Eucharist. The mass can be so rewarding if want to love it.
10. Participate in a community service activity. Faith without works is dead.
Update (August 6, 2011):
I would add a couple of thoughts to Peter’s excellent summary.
+ Everything your professors think they know about Catholicism is wrong. Their mistakes will seep into their teaching (mostly) unknowingly and they will rarely reflect well on the Church and her teaching. Most often, they will say or suggest that Catholic Church believes “X” and imply that “X” is really stupid. Stop and think: Would a billion Catholics believe it if it were really stupid? Would the Church teach it if it were really stupid? Is this professor really smarter than some of the most brilliant thinkers known to history — St. Augustine, St. Thomas Aquinas, Bl. John Paul II — thinkers who believed what the professor is mocking? Uh, no.
So, if they tell you something troubling about Catholicism or the Church, ask someone who knows. You will find either that the professor has misstated what we and you believe or that the professor simply does not know why we believe what we do — reasons that the Church has probably believed and taught for, oh-I-don’t-know, centuries.
+ “The greatest deception, and the deepest source of unhappiness, is the illusion of finding life by excluding God, of finding freedom by excluding moral truths and personal responsibility.” Bl. John Paul II, 2002.
In college, you will experience new-found freedom. Much of the so-called ‘college experience’ is nothing more than an attempt to find happiness by “excluding moral truths and personal responsibility.” Have lots of fun — just choose your fun well.
+ Grace. Participate in the sacraments — they are the ordinary means of receiving sanctifying grace. More than anything you need grace. Grace opens the door to Heaven — nothing else. Your faith will wither without it.
+ The Church Will Always Be There For You. The Church carries within her and freely gives out a love like no other. Your professors don’t. The guy you met in the bar who’s plying you with drinks and pretending that he likes you doesn’t. The girl who’s doing shots with you so she can forget what she’s about to do doesn’t. They won’t be there when the chips are down. They will abandon you; the Church will not.
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